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Authored by Rafa Hasan Zamir
Modernity has become algorithms. Our reality is now intercepted by the exploration and exploitation of our psychic cues that rewrite history by rerouting consumption, elections, public opinion, and civil war.
― Roger Spitz
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Platforms exploit human psychology to keep users hooked.
Personal info is used to manipulate behavior and drive spending.
Brands use AI and "dark patterns" to sell unnecessary products.
Social media fuels conspicuous consumption and the fear of missing out.
Solutions require both brand integrity and informed consumer habits.
The social media technology is not neutral; it is, on the other hand, created for our human weaknesses, as claimed by Justin Rosenstein, a quote that must be reflected upon, especially in an age where we provide so much of our personal data to social media apps. Social media initially provided its users with a platform for self-expression; however, gradually, it pivoted into a marketing toolkit, evolving into an addictive drug we consume today.
Humanity adapted social media as a medium for connection and expression, innocently, without realizing that their identities would be used as a weapon to get them addicted to a cycle of spending. In this article, we will examine how brands use social media as a tool to sell us products by manipulating us using our social media data.
Have you ever noticed how you’ll just think about a new pair of sneakers, and suddenly they’re following you from Instagram to TikTok? That’s not a coincidence, it’s the algorithm at work. Instead of you spending hours hunting for what you want, the products now find you. This level of psychological targeting is a huge part of the impact of consumerism because it creates a world of no friction. Everything is curated to look perfect and effortless, making the "Buy Now" button feel like the only logical next step. Research even shows that about 54% of users admit these personalized ads directly dictate what they end up buying
What was once a medium for innocent connection has been co-opted by brands to manufacture an illusion of necessity. Proactive engagement on these platforms fosters consumer trust, making brands appear as reliable fixtures in a user's social feed. By embedding themselves into the daily digital rituals of consumers, companies move away from traditional one-way advertising toward an interactive relationship that cultivates brand loyalty and makes users more susceptible to commercial influence. We can relate to this by observing the social media of popular brands that regularly interact with users; some even go to the extent of creating memes to be relatable and relevant to the audience, aka potential buyers.
The rise of influencers represents the ultimate pivot of social media into a marketing toolkit. These figures bridge the gap between human connection and commercial intent, with 49% of consumers now relying on their recommendations to guide buying choices. Influencers often serve as primary causes of over-consumption by presenting idealized lifestyles that link social success to material possessions. This emulation of high-status digital figures creates an environment where a constant stream of new products is perceived as essential for maintaining one's own digital identity.
Social media fuels a culture of "showing off," where users publicly display their lifestyle and belongings to gain social proof from their peers. This behavior is motivated by social factors like improving status and gathering prestige through objects rather than quality. When users share only the most positive, high-status information about themselves, it stimulates a desire to spend on luxury or flashy items to keep up with the perceived standards of their online circles.
The psychological pressure of FOMO is a significant driver of impulsive buying. Brands exploit this anxiety by using "dark patterns" that suggest products are in short supply or trending, triggering a panic that leads to unplanned purchases. This constant exposure to what others are doing makes consumers less satisfied with their own lives, pushing them toward excessive and often unnecessary consumption as a way to relieve psychological pressure or stay connected to virtual communities.
AI has turned shopping into a "mind-reading" machine. Instead of you looking for products, the products now find you. AI tracks every little thing you do; what you double-tap, how long you linger on a video, and even your current mood to figure out exactly what will make you hit "Buy Now." It creates a world of "zero friction," where everything looks perfect, and buying is as easy as a single click.
Because it knows your psychological weak spots, it can use "dark patterns" to trick your brain into panicking and overspending. Basically, AI makes it so easy and tempting to shop that your "rational brain" doesn't even have a chance to say, "Wait, do I actually need this? In short, the convenience brought about by the super-intelligent machines is cutting off the oxygen supply to our last working brain cell at the time of impulsive buying.
Social Media is a double-edged sword, as cliché as it may be perceived, we can not escape acknowledging how it has revolutionized marketing and media advertising; However we can not even ignore the concerns that have been raised by experts regarding the misuse of social media by brands to market us products that are in most cases not even required by us in the first place.
The manufacturing of the illusion of the need for useless consumerist products and channeling their sales through dark patterns using social media is the main focus of such experts' critiques. The platforms themselves are not a threat; the lack of ethical standards is the main culprit. Therefore, adhering to the integrity on the brand's end and being a responsible and informed consumer on our side is the current need.
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